A Patron deity that doesn't seem to match?

Anyone one here feel attracted to or have a patron deity that doesn't seem to quite match? For example you are attracted to a crone goddess yet you are not elderly. Or perhaps you are attracted to a virgin goddess but have children of your own. Has anyone experienced this? Lately I've been attracted to Minerva and Hestia. Which I find perplexing since they are virgin goddesses. Thanks in advance for all responses.